My Improvisational Life

I’m making it all up as I go along.

Read, and heard, and thought today. March 25, 2009

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“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
-Maryanne Williamson
Used by Nelson Mandela in his 1994 inaugural speech (maybe)

“Don’t be too fat, or too thin, or too dark, or too light; don’t be too sexual, or too chaste, or too smart, or too dumb. Be yourself. But make sure you fit in.”
Anna, One Tree Hill, Truth, Bitter Truth

It is easy to believe that we are not enough. Not thin enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough or talented enough. Our houses aren’t clean enough, our clothes aren’t right, our earring are too big or too small or not expensive enough, our teeth are funny looking. Our dreams and desires and the secret hopes of our hearts can’t possibly come true, why would they, as inadequate as we are.

There are those in the world whose whole existence is devoted to keeping the rest of us bound in our own insecurities and fears, and, just in case our own aren’t enough, they pile on more we never thought of.

This is, of course, all lies.

If you read this post, this is my challenge to you: today, if only for one minute of your day, defy the lies. Live the truth. Be yourself, and be enough.

Then if you want to, tell your story. I want to hear it.

 

4 Responses to “Read, and heard, and thought today.”

  1. Meowser Says:

    I love the Williamson quote.

    But contrary to popular belief, there is no record of Mandela ever using it in either of his inaugural speeches (one in Cape Town and one in Pretoria). The Cape Town speech is here, the Pretoria speech is here. No one has ever found any official record of Mandela ever quoting that passage at all; Williamson herself would be the first one to boast about it if he ever did, and she has always denied it.

    • joyousnerd Says:

      Thanks Meowser! Good catch! I had never read it before, I fell prey to the legend. Mandela or not, I love it.

  2. Thank you for these reminders.

    I have this quote up at work, from a Sark book,
    “You are enough.
    You do enough.
    You have enough.”

    The moment that captured this for me yesterday was as my little 4-year-old was crying that she didn’t want to go to school (daycare), and I told her I would kiss all of her clothes so they had mommy kisses on them and they would be with her all day. “No!” she said. So I said I would hug all of her clothes, so she would have mommy hugs on them all day and she nodded. So I pulled out a long-sleeved t-shirt and gave it a big hug, and a pair of sweat pants and gave them a hug, and a pair of Dora underpants and gave those a hug, and a pair of fairy princess socks, and gave those a hug, and her tears stopped, and together, we got her dressed.

    I’ll be on the lookout for today’s moment. Thanks again.

  3. Heather Says:

    Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful.


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